I came across this post that really resonated with me. I am far from a marriage expert but I study marriage because I find it fascinating.
This article, written by Rea Frey, on shape.com, talks about how she suddenly realized, after having been married for awhile, having kids and a full-time job, her fabulous sex life was almost non-existent. So she "took back the reins".
Follows is the link to her very honest and helpful article--lots of good tips--but here's another tip--sexy lingerie! THAT I can help with! And it won't hurt to have some knock-'em-out pumps either.